Tuesday, August 16, 2016

Adventures in Colarado ~ Lake Estes


If you're planning a trip to Colorado you MUST put Lake Estes in your plans. This place is so beautiful being the gateway to the Rocky Mountains. We stayed at Manor RV Park for 5 days.


This campground was ok. Not great and not horrible. My biggest complaint would be that felt like some campers were permanent residents. We asked and were told there were no permanent residents but there were permanent campers/trailers that owners visited seasonally. Other than this it had a very pretty view of a river and occasionally elk would visit the campground.


Being right outside the Rocky Mountains we did a lot of hiking. There are a lot of lake hikes. A LOT. The best we did was Bear Lake. 


It's also the most popular and so very busy. But it's an easy hike, only half a mile round trip, around a beautiful lake with Long's Peak as a focal point. Long's Peak is the mountain that you can see on the back of the US quarter. As a matter of fact there is a point on the hike where you can see the inspiration for the painting the quarter is based on.

The same day that we did Bear Lake we also did Alberta Falls. I love waterfalls and this one was enjoyable. The hike is only a little over a half a mile and not strenuous. 


At the falls we saw this little guy. He was friendly and not scared of all the people. I couldn't resist taking his picture.


An important piece of advice is to plan for parking. Parking is an issue in this part of the Rockies so parking lots fill up quickly. They do have shuttles that run to and from parking and I suggest using them. 

One of the best, if most strenuous hikes we did was Bierstadt Lake. This hike is less than 2 miles but it's nearly straight up a mountain. That's the bad news, the good news is you will experience some of the best views on this hike.



And then once you get up to the lake it's a very peaceful setting to sit and catch your breath and enjoy even more beautiful views.


It was at Estes Lake that we finally saw some major wildlife, mostly elk.





Another interesting thing to do in Estes Park is to visit the Stanley Hotel. 


This hotel was the inspiration for Stephen King's book The Shining. Story goes he and his wife stayed at this hotel in 1973 and for some reason they were the only guests. As Stephen King explored the hotel he claims to have encountered several ghosts. He went home and wrote The Shining. While this is not the hotel that was used for the movie it was used for the TV miniseries that Stephen King produced. We explored the hotel but did not see or experience and paranormal activity.




Here's a picture of the infamous room 217. This door did give me a creepy feeling.



One of my favorite things about this area of the country was the aspen tree forests. I absolutely love these trees and so wish they could survive in Florida.


The last thing we did before leaving Estes Park was to bike around Estes Lake. This is a four and a half mile bike ride and has the most beautiful views.





Hercules was curious about the geese.







Wednesday, July 27, 2016

A Different Kind of Journey

Hi! As you know this is a travel blog. A place where I can share my journeys with you and where you can read about them and hopefully be entertained. That's great and good but today I want to share a different journey with you. I've been on this journey for a very long time and let me tell you I have come a very long way. 

First a little back story. This is me:

My name is Dena. Nice to meet you. :) 

When I was growing up I was terribly shy. So shy in fact that I had a hard time speaking up within my own family at times. This shyness stemmed from a fear that what I said would be wrong or, worse laughed at. I never felt good enough. From the time I was old enough to recognize these feelings I've felt this way. Even now at 48 years old I struggle with these feelings. It's insecurity and I've always wanted to be free of it but I can't seem to dig those thoughts and feelings out of my head.

To compound the problem after my first child was born I was not able to take off the pregnancy weight. I added to the extra weight with 2 more pregnancies and more feelings of not being good enough because now I was overweight and not attractive AND I wasn't one of those beautiful creatures who, even though they may be overweight have this inner confidence that shines through and makes them what everyone else wishes they could be. Nope I was fat, tired and insecure.


The above picture was taken the day before I went in to have  gastric bypass surgery. This story is not about my journey with GBP surgery. I only mention it because it plays a small part in the story. So on we go. After weight loss surgery I lost 150 lbs. In the 10 years since then I've gained a little back as most patients do.  

So now I found myself at a reasonable weight. I was thinner, healthier and for a long time got many, many compliments from people on my weight loss. You would think this would give me tons of confidence right? It didn't. I wished people would stop noticing that I had lost weight. Where before I stood in the back because I was overweight now I stood in the back because I didn't want anyone to notice me. Nothing much had changed except for the fact that I wasn't overweight any more.

Fast forward to January 2013. I was invited to go to a free Zumba class. I didn't really want to go but my sisters were going and I thought I'll go once and then I'll be able to say I didn't like it and I won't go back. We showed up and stood on the very back row. I did the routines, or tried, it was tricky to find my rhythm. It was a good workout but I still wasn't convinced. I decided to go once more and I don't know what, but something at the second class clicked. I was hooked! I'm not a dancer but I enjoyed pretending to be a dancer for an hour twice a week. My instructor Nikki became my hero. She wasn't your normal Zumba instructor nightmare. She wasn't tiny. She didn't dance like a natural born Latin dancer. She was real. She had an injury that she struggled with. She messed up from time to time. She had insecurity issues that she shared with us but she overcame them and got on that stage and taught us Zumba. Which made me feel like if she could do that then I could stand in a crowd of women and pretend to dance for an hour. It wasn't long until I went from the back row to the middle of the crowd.

I continued going to Zumba for around a year until my instructor told us that she was starting a new form of dance fitness called REFIT. It was so new that our class would be the first REFIT class in the state of Florida. We were making history.  REFIT Revolution is similar to Zumba in that it is dance exercise set to music but REFIT is so much more. It is about community, about building relationships and building each other up while you exercise. It is about making yourself a better person and no one will ever feel out of place. Everyone wants to see you succeed and so you do. They have a saying REFIT feels like home and it does. I've been doing REFIT since Nikki first introduced us to it and I've gone from the back row to the middle to the front of the class. I've also become an avid supporter.


So at some point last year I started feeling like I wanted to really overcome my insecurities. I was in a women's exercise/friendship group and one of the challenges was to do something to better yourself. I thought about that for about 5 minutes. What could I do to better myself? I immediately knew it had to be something to work on overcoming my insecurities and once I knew that I knew that I had to go up onstage at REFIT and dance. I was terrified! I contacted Nikki and told her what I wanted  (I really didn't WANT to!) and asked her to pick a song that I knew really well. She agreed and we chose the song Good Morning by Mandisa which I had been dancing since that very first class. Long story short I got up there and felt great about myself and thought ok, I'll never have to do that again! But that wasn't helping me to overcome my insecurities. It was still heavily on my mind. Around September of last year, during class Nikki started a routine that I knew very well and looked down at me on the front row and said, "You need to get up here." I shook my head and thought No way lady! But then I thought "overcome those insecurities". These women WANT you to succeed. So I went up and I messed up but I felt awesome!


It wasn't long after this that I found out that the founders of REFIT were having what they called a master class in a city near me in late July 2016. I was excited to meet the founders and be able to participate in one of their classes AND it was only $10 so I signed up. But this thought of overcoming my insecurities was more and more on my mind. I knew that the day after this master class there would be an new instructor training and Nikki and other ladies in my REFIT class kept telling me that I needed to get certified to teach REFIT. The only problem is, I don't really have a desire to teach a REFIT class. I thought it over for months. I prayed, I spoke with ladies I am close to in my classes. Finally I decided that I wanted to do it. This would be the ultimate in overcoming those pesky insecurities. Now to find the $200 to register for the class. I don't work outside the home and I didn't want to ask my husband for this money so I was selling some items around the house on a resale site and was slowly saving up. On my birthday I was so surprised and touched when my husband gave me the $200 to attend the instructor training. I signed up immediately. 


Once I signed up I knew that it was going o be a big challenge training in front of the creators of this wonderful sport. So, I decided to amp up my work on kicking the insecurities to the curb. Another challenge for myself: Go up onstage at every REFIT class from then until training day. And I did it too. I was becoming more and more confident being onstage and then...................... My husband and I went on a month long trip to Colorado. No REFIT for me for at least 1 month. But it would be okay because once we returned home there would be 4 classes to get back into the groove of things before the master class and the training. Great plan right? Wrong! Several days before we were supposed to come home from Colorado I woke up and passed out on the floor! Unbeknownst to me I had developed 3 stomach ulcers which had been bleeding. My blood pressure dropped very low and bam! I'm out of commission for a couple of weeks. 

Don't laugh at the hair!

So I get back home and my strength doesn't return until right before the master class. That 90 minute master class was my first time back at REFIT in almost 2 months. I could have backed out but I was determined to do this. I took it very easy and about halfway through took a break and sat down for a bit but I made it through and had a wonderful time and I got to meet the founders. It was wonderful!



The next day at the master class I continued to confront the insecurities. When they asked for 10 volunteers I was volunteer number 4. I went up on the stage and danced 16 counts of a simple dance step BY MYSELF! In front of the whole room full of around oh around 100 women AND the founders! Click here to see me slaying insecurities at REFIT instructor training. I'm the 3rd person to dance. I have on a teal shirt and I run off afterwards straight to Nikki for a well deserved hug. It was very terrifying but at the same time freeing. I was onstage a couple more times throughout the day. The women were very supportive. It was a safe place. It was one of the best experiences if my life. I loved it!

This is me running through the tunnel as all of the others congratulate me on a job well done.


I'm a licensed REFIT instructor!

We were told to partner up and have our partner write 2 words on our arm. The first word is what we are or what we want to overcome and the second word is what are or will be as overcomers.


Group shot of all the current and new REFIT instructors from Pensacola and the founders.

This was an amazing experience for me. Do I still have insecurities? Yes, but I feel much more confident now than I ever have before. Just this morning at class I went onstage again. I will continue going onstage until I'm comfortable enough to be up there alone and probably long after that. 


This is an ongoing work for me and I gladly and expectantly face the challenge. I am becoming the confident woman I've always dreamed of being.



My REFIT class.










Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Adventures in Colorado ~ Colorado Springs

After being without an RV for four months we were excited to finally have a new coach and we quickly scheduled a trip to Colorado.



We had never been to Colorado so we planned on staying for a month a changing to a new location around every 5 days or so.

We started our trip on June 6th and spent the first 3 days driving to Colorado Springs. Along the way we saw some country that we'd never seen before.


Here is a windmill farm in north west Texas. Please pardon all the dead bugs on the windshield. lol


Here is David and Hercules in a wheat field in western Oklahoma.


Pulled over for a break in Oklahoma.

We finally arrived on June 8th and checked into our campground. Pike's Peak RV Park.


This was a very well run RV park. The staff was very friendly and called us by name. It is a small campground but very clean and in the middle of everything you want to see in Colorado Springs.

Here's Lucky (our RV) parked in our site.

The next day we visited Garden of the Gods.


Garden of the Gods is a must see if you visit Colorado Springs. It's free to enter the park and pets are welcome. Here are just a few sights to be seen:






The day after that we went to the Manitou Cliff Dwellings. This is a very interesting "museum" that showcases the dwellings of the Anasazi Indians. 




This is an interactive walk through experience.






Later that evening we took a cog train up to Pike's Peak.


The Manitou and Pike's Peak Cog Railway is a train that travels almost 9 miles up to Pike's Peak. 


The ride takes about 3 hours round trip and stops at the summit. You disembark and can enjoy the views, shop or have a snack before re-boarding and riding back down.

In June the snow at the summit is still deep.


It was about 34 degrees at the summit when we were there.

14,110 feet above sea level.


Ready to board for the ride back down the mountain.

The next day we decided to drive up to Pike's Peak.


We saw some interesting "wildlife" signs.

Saw some deer.........


And some beautiful views.





On the drive back down we stopped for lunch in a secluded spot and enjoyed this amazing view while we ate.

Our final stop for the day was the Crystal Peak Reservoir. 

Tired and a bit sunburned we headed back to camp, had a nice and dinner and turned in for the night. 

We spent the next day in camp, resting up and preparing to head out in the morning for our next Colorado destination.

Enjoy this picture of Her's first experience with snow.